Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Sometimes I Sit and Think. Sometimes I Just Sit.


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I don't know about you, but sometimes I get a serious case of "brain drain." Brain drain is a temporary condition of forgetfulness caused by trying to process and maintain too much information.

The world cotinues to move at a faster and faster pace. We are expected to comprehend, process and produce more in less time.

For example, when I was growing up, our family had one phone number. Now, we have a phone number, fax number, and multiple cell phone numbers. We used to have to memorize our driver's license and social security numbers. Now, added to those two bits of priceless information, we have multiple user IDs and passwords for work and home. We use to have a credit card and checking/savings/investments accounts. Now, we have credit cards, debit cards, PINs, on-line banking, and brokerage accounts with all sorts of "investment vehicles" that involve traunches and derivatives. It just goes on and on.

Most of the time, I do a pretty good job of keeping up with all of my "important" information, but everyone once in a while my brain temporarily checks out. For example, I recently went to use my debit card and went absolutely, totally completely blank when it came time to punch in my PIN number -- the same PIN number I've used almost daily for the last two years. Absolutely nothing came to mind. Zero, zip, nada. After staring at the keypad for at least a minute, I had to admit to the less than amused checkout girl that I couldn't remember my PIN, which meant she had to redo the transaction because I was going to have to pay for items the old fashioned way -- cash.

At first I was afraid something was really wrong with my brain, but I could remember all of my other IDs, PINs, Passwords and numbers. Somehow, this one had just slipped off the old "hard drive." Fortunately, a few days later the number suddenly popped back into my head out of no where. I immediately wrote it down on my newly created master list of important, not-easily-retrievable information.

As I contemplated the problem, it suddenly occurred to me that I was not losing it -- my brain was merely "buffering." Its like when you are downloading a large file on your computer and your computer pauses for a few minutes while the file is being transferred. The hardware and software have to catch up to the new data being processed.

Ever since my buffering experience, I've made a point to take a few minutes every day to let my brain buffer. I take a mental break from the continuous bombardment of information, deadlines and never-ending list of tasks tht I must perform. Sometimes, I sit and think about something pleasant and sometimes I just sit. Either way I'm convinced a little buffering along the way will prevent the "old hard drive" from eventually having a total memory dump and crashing. -- Keep shining!

Monday, April 9, 2007

Finding Your Yellow Brick Road


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Almost everyone loves the movie "The Wizard of Oz." I loved it as a child, but I appreciate it more as an adult. Just like Dorothy had to travel down her yellow brick road, make new friends, and deal with obstacles that would stop her from reaching her desired destination, we all have to travel down our own yellow brick road to reach our full potential.

The first challenge in this journey is finding YOUR yellow brick road. There are many roads to chose from and all will take you a different direction and land you at a different destination. Traveling down the wrong path will result in wasted time, disappointment, lack of fulfillment, and never reaching your full potential. The problem is compounded because every decision made on the wrong path will result in getting further and further away from your intended destination. But, traveling down the right path will bring excitement, fulfillment, achievement, joy and a life-well-lived.

Everyone has a special calling on their life and a unique path to follow. No one can successfully travel down someone else's path and expect success. You have to find your own path.

So, how do you find your yellow brick road? You find it by looking inward to get to know yourself. In the words of Shakespeare, "To thine own self be true." Get to know what you like and what you don't like. Try different things and find out what you are good at doing and what you stink at doing. Discover what comes naturally to you and what natural talents you have. Identify those things that give you energy instead of draining you. Find the things that make you feel fulfilled.

Once you have identified some of the things that jazz you, begin to align those things with other priorities you have in your life and start developing a life plan. The old saying, "Failure to plan is a plan to fail" is true. Don't make the mistake of living your life without a plan -- or a pathway. You wouldn't think of taking a trip to a new place without a map. Why would you live your life that way?

Rome wasn't build in a day, so remember it will take time to create your plan and maximize your talents. In fact, it will take a lifetime .... but if you are on the right path, you will enjoy every step of the journey. -- Keep shining!

Sunday, April 8, 2007

Easter - A Time for Reflection


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"Happy Easter" -- an expression many people associate wtih baby bunnies, little chicks, hunts for colored eggs, and a giant rabbit that makes his way around the world leaving baskets of goodies for good boys and girls. While I love bunnies, chicks, and hunting for strangely colored eggs in the back yard, I think its important to remember the true significance of Easter.

Easter is arguably one of the most important days in the history of all mankind. It is the day Christ overcame death and gave anyone who will accept him the promise of eternal life. It doesn't get any simpler or better than that.

Easter is also a time to think about all of the blessings God has bestowed on us. If you can see, hear, speak, smell, walk, and touch, you are blessed. If you have someone to love and someone who loves you, you are blessed. If you have breath, you have life and you are blessed. When you really think about it, the best blessings are the simple things we take for granted in our every day life.

So, in the midst of your Easter festivities, I hope you will take a few minutes to reflect on the true meaning of Easter and to give thanks for all of your blessings.

Have a great day and "Happy Easter!" -- Keep shining!

Saturday, April 7, 2007

A View from the Shoe


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Hey, I'm Gary Neal Armstrong and welcome to my blog. I'm also known as the traveling "Shoe Shine Guy" in Nashville, Tennessee. Using my "secret sauce," I can put a shine on shoes so bright you can see your reflection!

I didn't start out my career being a shoe shine guy. I attended college and had a successful career in sales. I was having a great time and then some things happened that made me reevaluate my priorities. As a result, I decided to make some changes.

Along the way, I came across the Bible verse Proverbs 18:16 that says, "A man's gift makes room for him and brings him before great men." I have found that verse to be completely true. By using my simple talent of shining shoes, I have met some of the most incredible people that I never would have known had I stayed on my "traditional career path." Some of them have been amazingly brilliant, talented, famous, powerful -- and some have been just "plain folk" with powerful life messages.

A few months ago, I decided to write about some of my experiences as a Shoe Shine Guy. The result is a screenplay called "The Shoe Shine Guy" (original, huh?). It is part fact and part fiction. It has a lot of laughs, a little romance and illustrates what can happen when we use or talents/gifts to bless other people. I'll be sharing a lot more about this project, as well as some of the things I've learned from my "view from the shoe" in the days to come.

Thanks for visiting my blog and I hope you'll come back often. -- Keep shining!